Today Bethany and I took our weekly trip to our favorite store, Hobby Lobby. As I was checking out, I had Kate in the cart. There was an old guy in line behind me, and he says to me,
"You know I saw a little girl just about that same age fall out of a cart and split her head open. Worse thing I ever saw."
Then he turns to the cashier and says, like I'm not even there...
"You know parents these days just don't know how to tell their kids no. That's why their all growing up to be gangsters." And then he gave me a cold stare.
Excuse me?!? So I said to him,
"You know what sir? My little girl is in a bad mood, she's hungry and it's past her naptime. If I let her out of the cart she runs away from me, which leaves her vulnerable to be kidnapped by creeps like you. If I put her in the seat in the cart, she tries to stand which would be a much longer and harder fall, injuring her more than if she fell from the cart basket. The buckle is broken on this cart, so I can't strap her in at the moment. So, sir,
THIS is the safest place for her to be at the moment. Don't call me a bad mom, and mind your own business JERK!"
Okay...I didn't say that because I'm a pansy and I hate confrontation. But, I did call him a bad name when I was 10 feet away from him. I said it loudly too, so I hope he heard.
Seriously?!? I know that kids fall out of carts. You don't have to tell me that. We've all heard the stories. But I was watching her, and she was still close enough to me that I could have caught her if she started to fall.
So, ladies, I guess what we're supposed to learn from all this is:
If you let your child ride in the cart, they will grow up to be gangsters.